It seems like there has been an unusually high number of people I know (including myself) that have been through some particularly rough patches this year. 2015 has not been the most kind and generous year. Overloaded with obstacles, chock full of unexpected challenges, and crawling with chaotic changes, 2015 is giving many people a run for their money.
I am here to tell you, you are not alone in your struggles. The cosmos has delved it’s hand into many pockets and is letting loose mayhem all over. It reminds me of the short lived tv series Constantine and their battle against the “rising darkness.” So too, 2015, has let loose it’s own rising darkness. But in truth, there is always light in the darkness and if you don’t lose sight of this, you can find it. Frequently it will be small flickers and flashes of light that let you see enough to keep hope alive. At times it will be a steady stream of light that really lends a hand to leading you out of the dark. Look for the light.
One of the more recent changes I made in my life was to try to be more positive and I have found that if you try your hardest (because for so many of us positivity is anything but natural) the ebb and flow of positivity increases in your life. You find the light when it starts to get dark and can sometimes pull yourself out before you get submerged. Or you can reach out to the light.
When you are going through a rough time ask for help! Utilize your friends and family when you are having a tough time. Find just one person you can pour your heart out to even if it’s a stranger just so you can release some of the weight of your burden. Write it down, get some of it out of your system. Find a support group be it online or in person. Because I promise you there is at the very least one person that will help you if you ask and pull you out of the rising darkness.
On the flip side, if you know someone who is going through a rough time, check in on your friend to see how they are doing. Offer help when you can. Do little things to lift peoples spirits. Send a card or a gift, a text or an email or an actual phone call. (Do people have verbal conversations anymore or just via text?) In any case, just let them know that you are there for them and then remind them, again and often. Be someone’s light and pull them out of the dark.
To all my loved ones and everyone going through a rough time. . . I love you, I’m praying for you and I am here if you need me. Let me shine for you.
Some people have spun webs around our heart that are so intricate and complex that the impressions they have inscribed can never be untangled from our essence. These are the people who change our lives. These are the champions of kindness and encouragement, the people who make you smile when it seems like there is no good left in the world. They are the listeners, and the noticers of small blips in our lives or hiccups in our personalities. They are the jokers, and the reinforcers of normal (whatever that may be). These are the people who you find yourself thinking about even after you have not crossed paths with them in such a long time, (and may never again). These are the people that murmured some words in our direction that were so incredibly profound we often find them on replay or shuffle in our minds. These are the people who have helped fashion who we are today, at this very moment. We can never have enough of these people in our lives.
To all of these people from my life, I love you, I miss you and thank you. Thank you. Thank you.