Month: June 2015

Father’s Day

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Father’s are so important in the lives of their children. While Mother’s are greatly needed, especially when children are tiny babes. Father’s play a great role in molding and shaping their children into the adults they will become.

A few words to MY Father:

I am ever so Thankful and Lucky that my Father has been in my life since the beginning and continues to be in my life to this day. I have learned many lessons from my father and gladly credit him with teaching me many lessons in life and in responsibility. I do not know where I would have ended up if I had not had the guiding hands of my Father to help me on this journey in life. Now that I am grown and my eyes are open wider to the perils I could have undergone without him being around (as so many people nowadays aren’t so lucky to have a Father in their lives) I cannot tell him enough how much I appreciate him.

I love you Dad! Happy Father’s Day!
XOXO

A Few words to MY Husband:

For having grown up without a father of your own, I admire you for trying so hard to be a good Father for your child. Some of my favorite sounds are the squeals of laughter and delight when you and the boy are playing while I am in another room, myself, giggling, at the sounds of your laughter. Thank you for helping me in this journey we call raising a child. Thank you for working with me and not against me as we learn how to be good parents. Thank you for taking suggestions to heart and not feeling insulted when I ask you to do something differently, (perhaps a way my father taught me). I know your “Father” role models were lacking or were not the most kind and that you had to learn so many things on your own and when I make these suggestions it is just something I want to share with you to help us all. Thank you for working to be a better person so you can be a better father and a better husband. I don’t think I tell you enough how much I truly appreciate you from the bottom of my heart. I am so proud of you for learning and growing on a daily basis and trying to always improve for the sake of your family.

I love you babe. Happy Father’s Day.

XOXO

All Hail, Another Round of Babies is Coming Forth!

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It seems like babies come forth in little swarms and another round of babies are about to make their presence known in this world. To celebrate I’m passing on a few healthful hints to new mommies (or reminders to veterans if it’s been a while.)

In General

If you are not part of some type of online mommy support network, join one! (This is where I give a shout out to all my NHCM’s! I love you all!) You make tons of new friends and there is always someone up at 2am, or 3am or 4am when you are in desperate need of some help or a pick me up that will respond to your desperate plea for help.

About Sleeping

-They say to sleep when baby sleeps… YES, do this! Don’t clean or organize or do anything else! SLEEP. (I am still a big fan of this rule and love taking weekend naps with my toddler.)

-Cry it Out is not for everyone. A lot of people will tell you to let your baby cry themselves to sleep or “self-soothe”. I am NOT a fan of this method. I just cannot do it and you don’t have to either. Sarah Ockwell-Smith has a great article about it Here: Self Settling-What really happens when you teach a baby to self soothe to sleep. -

About Breastfeeding and Pumping

-Breastfeeding isn’t easy, try not to get frustrated (which can be so very hard). Keep Trying and Ask for Help if you need it! Lactation consultants are great! Also Le Leche League International- is a great resource

-Breastfeeding is messy keep a burp rag nearby.

-There are many different tools that can help make nursing easier, like nipple shields and fenugreek. . . try them if you’re having trouble. Using tools to help you achieve your breastfeeding goals does not make you defective.

-Pumping sucks, but you should do it if you can, build a stock before you go back to work, it’s amazing how quickly it can deplete.

-Watch the video that comes with your pump. Sometimes it takes two or three or four or five times to figure it out. (Like,oh duh, the dial turns up higher than the stupid little picture above it.)

-Pumping can be messy, keep a burp rag nearby.

-Use your friends who have or do Breastfeed and pump as a resource. They are an invaluable resource!

About Diapers

-They say you will change 8-12 diapers a day in the beginning. I swear it was more and I think sometimes I’m still changing 8 a day.

-Diapers are labeled all sorts of different fancy ways: swaddlers, snug and dry, cruisers etc… I haven’t found much of a difference except the color change indicator is way cool! Most brands seem to be about the same quality. (I didn’t choose to cloth diaper, but to all the moms who do I just want to let you know I think you’re awesome)

-For kicks and giggles put a diaper through the washing machine to see how much they can really hold (Oops, did I really do that? Why Yes. . . Yes, I did).

Cheers and Congratulations!